I was struck by questions her coach asked, and thought as I muddled through this assignment on self control--hmmm, that's relevant.
Coach: Why do you not think about your grip?
Coach: Why do you think you do it this way?
Chickadee: Because it's comfortable.
Coach: Do you recognize that you have other options, and while it may feel funny it will produce what you want?
Chickadee: I guess.
Coach: Which way just got you though with a rocket.
Chickadee: The new way of gripping.
Coach: So when you grip it different something different and good happens.Chickadee: Yeah
Coach: So, make the decision yourself. Do it.
I thought about areas inconsistency and repeated traps of undiscipline. It occurred to me that I don't even think about it as a approach it. In the abstract, concepts of life I want to "do better" but too often I go through the motions in the most familiar, comfortable way.
What if I start with a decision about my grip, recognizing I have options and what are those options. What if I practiced with various options until I discovered the most effective? What if I do the thing that works best even if it feels weird.
Mom and Dot may start hitting rockets.
This really fits in with this week's lesson, doesn't it? So why do we go for the comfortable? Because it IS comfortable, I suppose? I wonder if we sometimes let the process eclipse the goal (or our attaining said goal)...
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